So, you’re out here trying to date like a mature, faith-driven woman—praying, putting yourself out there, giving “nice” guys a chance—and yet, somehow, you keep ending up with men who just don’t feel right.

Been there. Way too many times.

But one day, I finally woke up and smelled the metaphorical coffee:

I realized my patterns weren’t random; they were rooted in my own wounds, beliefs, and subconscious choices. The wrong men weren’t just finding me—I was choosing them without even realizing it.

Healing changed everything. Understanding attraction changed everything. Dating with intention completely transformed my love life.

God’s got the man. Your job? Stop getting in your own way