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Hi its Judith!

Christian dating coach helping single women date with intention and strategy so you can find your emotionally available dream man!

I’m a Romcom & Disney fairytale fanatic who nerds out on relationship psychology. I spend my time getting steamed chicken dumplings or tweeting dating advice. Most importantly, I love Jesus and I’m convinced he has mind blowing plans for the woman reading this (YOU) 

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I've always been a hopeless romantic. Dating
since I was 15, Taylor Swift practically wrote the soundtrack to my teenage dating life.

My pattern: Judith meets guy. Judith falls head over heels and is convinced she will marry him. Boy tags along. It’s great in the start, until one day where it goes downhill- taking forever to respond, or better still- ghosting, losing interest, and disappearing. Judith is sad, until she finds another guy (and it starts all over again)

Then one day it dawned on me…  I had two major problems in the dating zone

One, I wasn’t doing dating right. Falling too fast, not having standards, not seeing red flags, not knowing what I wanted in a man… all that jazz

Two: BAGGAGE. I had so much baggage from the past that I was carrying- wounds, trauma, big, unprocessed feelings. I had become a master at bringing my wounds and past into the newest dating relationship I found, and hoped that this new guy would somehow solve it. #toxic

From painfully single to spoiled rotten

I’m willing to bet on what I teach, because I’ve seen it happen in my own life. I went from chronically overthinking, crying about boys at 2 am and wondering the classic “what are we?”

To now dating a man who:

  • 💒Prays with me and for me everyday
  • 💎Communicates and pursues me intentionally & boldly
  • 🌸Plans dates & brings flowers
  • ❤️Makes an effort to understand me
  • 💪Works hard so he can build a life for us
 

It’s possible. But it takes work. I see how foundational it is to “do the work” that nobody really talks about. I had to figure it out all on my own. 

That’s why I created The Empowered Dating Club. 

Truth of the matter:

You could go on a hundred dates, but if you don’t know how to talk to & understand men, see red flags early on, you’re going to keep attracting unavailable men. If you carry your emotional baggage around, feel unworthy, and don’t know how to embody your girly superpowers and let him lead, there’s a good chance your connection isn’t going to make it all the way to the marriage altar.

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take action?

let’s get this show on

the road now, shall we?

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